by Mary Kelly | Dec 7, 2018 | Uncategorized
LESSON 14 B. DON’T REWARD BAD BEHAVIOR 14. Six Steps to Change Bad Behavior Because as a society we shy away from conflict, there will never be enough training in diffusing bad behavior effectively. Here are some guidelines for addressing bad behavior I have...
by Mary Kelly | Dec 7, 2018 | Uncategorized
LESSON 13 B. DON’T REWARD BAD BEHAVIOR 13. Flying with a Jerk Imagine a crowded plane with no seat assignments. Now picture a very tall, broad-shouldered young man seating himself in the first row of the plane—the bulkhead seat, which has no seat in front of it....
by Mary Kelly | Dec 7, 2018 | Uncategorized
LESSON 12 B. DON’T REWARD BAD BEHAVIOR 12. “The Same” Isn’t Always Fair Treating people “the same” is not necessarily being fair. If you treat your son the same way you treat your daughter, you still may not be acting fairly. Why? Because children interpret...
by Mary Kelly | Dec 7, 2018 | Uncategorized
LESSON 11 B. DON’T REWARD BAD BEHAVIOR 11. Correcting Is Not Criticizing Be clear on this. As a leader, correcting workers who are not doing their jobs properly doesn’t equal criticism. In fact, developmental feedback from leaders encourages someone to be a...
by Mary Kelly | Dec 7, 2018 | Uncategorized
LESSON 10 B. DON’T REWARD BAD BEHAVIOR 10. How Bad Behavior Gets Reinforced Does this happen often? Does it happen in real life? Let’s say your little Chihuahua barks at a delivery man. Instead of putting the dog into a sit and making her calm down before you...